It is no secret that the groom is nervous and not less than the bride, and the closer the solemn day , the more tension and emotion. Why are they afraid of , and how to deal with it?

Of course, not all stress are the stronger sex. Some individuals even impenetrable in the registry office no muscle on his face did not falter . However, most begin to fade and suddenly wake up from nightmares long before the main day.

Recognize that future husband possessed unconscious fears, much harder , because he does not understand what is going on …

– Family. If the kind of man who had many divorces and unhappy marriages where the woman received the coveted stamp in the passport , suddenly became a shrew , poor thing did not expect anything good and on their wedding day.

What to do: talk about their relatives and friends who lived happily ever after life , and constantly talking about the stability of your relationship and your confidence in a bright future. All these thoughts can run the program in a positive subconscious groom, especially if they lay in man’s head at a time when he was tired and could not resist (eg, at bedtime ).

– Bride- leader. When a girl wants to be like men : earn at least , buy cars, build houses – is, of course, is the groom concerns. And suddenly it all my life to be head of the family and will not let him make a step without her knowledge ? Some men in this situation are afraid to be podkabluchnykami unconsciously afraid to take on the role of women .

What to do: Do not be overly active and initiative that does not fit the man and pull it for yourself , do not decide on their own tasks within the competence of the stronger sex. According to Eastern philosophy , if a woman wants a couple to the power pole “yin” (ie, it is soft , patient , complaisant ), then people will automatically show the energy “yang” ( becomes active , strong and resolute ).

– Discerning bride. Too girls’ inflated expectations, which she expressed her future husband, too, can to drive him into depression. Especially when he realizes that will not make it to the end of the year to buy a two-bedroom apartment or a CEO .

What to do: do not give up their desires, but it is better to talk nachystotu and calm lover, saying that you are confident in his abilities and willing to wait.

– Bride- beauty. Ironically, it may also be a cause for concern. The brighter and more impressive girl, especially fear of the groom to the altar that she will not come – interception along the way.

What to do: enter the modest role of the bride. Unfortunately, if you when we first met her future husband appeared in the form of a fatal seductress , all his life he will perceive you that way.

If a loved one in preparation for the celebration ever dissatisfied, is a conflict or even disappear for a few days , you know: it all – a manifestation of his fears. Not nakalyaute situation , show gentleness, forgiving . After all , it’s not for long.

– To once again not to injure the male psyche, do not force the groom to participate in the preparation of the wedding along with you. The best thing would be if you analyze the information and provide it a choice and the last word is for him. For example, pick a few restaurants with different menus and ask your sweetheart to decide which option will suit you more.