Once, perhaps, the time of our grandmothers, girls before the wedding the bride came home and organized a bachelorette party . He has become outdated analogue today bachelorette party had its own rules : the girls had to sing sad songs, men’s bachelorette party does not have to be all the girls had to “prepare beauty ” – is any thing the bride ( garland, ribbon, scarf ). “Beauty” – a symbol of the former life of the bride. She shared between all the girls , or the bride gave it to a dear friend or sister. Today, inherited from grandparents left us only the name of this tradition.
I do not know , fortunately or not, but you – the modern bride , so anything that can make a hen party in the club in a strip bar, sauna – sea of possibilities , and can do without it , but apparently not interesting. Remember, as before, the main and only rule bachelorette party is absence of men. Although … rules and regulations in order to make it as broken. Moreover, the main function of the bachelorette party – the possibility for the last time to feel free and independent. Tips on the ” framework of decency ” of your holiday we give, unfortunately, is not authorized . You choose whether it’s something from the category of extreme entertainment ( Monty and all that) , a series of social events in style a la fourchette , or simple gatherings in the kitchen with her mother and a couple of girlfriends. Extreme is not recommended for people with clearly defined characteristics conscience and guilt which escalates from time to time with or without. Eccentric and risky lady such measures will only benefit , but as yet be aware.
So, if you decide to use this ” last day of freedom” to the fullest and indulge in ” all serious … ” should be very safe, as for my own good.
The threat number 1 – blurred brain alcohol vapors in the presence of mass temptations (meaning male) as a consequence – loss of self- indulgence and their whims. Exit – eat more , drink less .
Threat number 2 (if number 1 could not be avoided ) – nasty surprises as interesting bunch of sores, how to avoid it , the most well know. Realistically assess the situation, if the temperature hit you in the head and all around wonderful and great, it does not mean that you can blithely muffle the voice of reason. In general , the idea , I hope , clear .
Threat number 3 – dirt . If crazy action removed the camera , camera , make sure that all pictures and videos before leaving the premises were your heavy censorship . In light of the threat of the presence of pseudo- friends, allegiance to which you are not sure , too, is highly undesirable. But seriously , the emergence of such thoughts and desires and conniving – to signal to think seriously on ” and if you want Vami married? ” It ‘s not too late …
Decided that you want ? ! Then read morality is no more. Proceed to organizational issues. First, it is not necessary to arrange a bachelorette party just before the wedding, because you will need to sleep , look fresh and well and not get sick from a hangover. Better hold his day with two or three a week. Second, the girls of the future spouse , even if they are good , even if one of you age , you should not invite. After all, you do not need to further their stories the family table about what it was a ” terrible orgy .” You still have time with them “closely naspilkuvatysya .”
Now, thirdly, but most importantly – how to organize a bachelorette party ? There are two defining characteristics – your ability (financial ) and your desires. If the former is abundant , the second case will not rise .
Option ” all the sisters on earrings .” That if you do not want to offend anyone . Devic – arranged several events in a row at work with colleagues (coffee – tea – cake ), with friends ( vino , etc. ) and aunts , sisters , neighbors ( depending on the culture) , family of the future husband still does not recommend.
Option “classic” . Place selected according to your tastes and match the material possibilities. Invited – only those who are nice to see you . Music , alcohol , gossip , songs and dances. Many take to hire a limousine that day to sightseeing trips to the closest friends, then sure, no one bothers and experiences are unforgettable.
If one is invited Lady (although looking position) or a couple of middle-aged ladies , be confident – everything will be dull and lifeless . The mission of your bridesmaids before the wedding – to entertain you, but not included in the overall running around . Look for your bachelorette party can be quite varied . Alternatively, if you want, can afford to be without makeup and in a very unnecessary way – it is your right , men still nearby .
One last thing – do not try to get to the stag party ‘s future spuse. Let it rozvazhytsya and hold time as he wants. After all , you are no limits to your rights.